I thought I was going to bed, I guess not just yet.
My heart is just overflowing right now. I'm so thankful for so many things. I live a very blessed life.
I just turned on the song "Yours Forever" by Dara Maclean. It is just speaking to me right now. I know on a day to day basis I take all the little blessings for granted. One thing I know is I am forever grateful for God never failing to meet me in the here an now.
Listen to song here.
When I was new to Japan and my marriage was crumbling apart right before me. I wept in the shower and prayed and then got up and did something about it. He gave me strength.
When food had a hold of my life and I was crying over a powdered donut. I know it may seem trivial to some of you. He was there. He showed me that he created food from the earth to nourish me. I didn't need that donut. I needed Him and all that he provides for me.
Now when I'm here at school. I get so stressed over tests and falling behind in class. Yet He is here. Meeting me in my need. Helping me to recall the information as I need it.
To a person who isn't a Christian they could explain all of this away. Say that I was the one who did something, not God.
In my heart of hearts, I know that I myself am incapable of these things.
I didn't carry the ability to change my husbands heart. I have seen him change from angry to loving. He changed my heart from closed off and bitter to open and kind. It seems to have just happened overnight.
I didn't carry the ability to say no to food that was in front of me. It happened when I let go.
My body gets physically exhausted from studying and stress. He meets me time and time again in my need.
I am so in love. One of my greatest fears is that I have all this love for God and what he has done for me, yet I fail to show the world.
"Thank you, for finding me when you did. You changed my life. Now I believe that love is all that I'll ever need. I promise my heart, and all that I am, I'm yours forever my Love."
Monday, August 26, 2013
Thursday, August 15, 2013
Being Humbled
This week was a really trying week for me. I cried. I cried hard. I was on the phone with James and I was just sobbing. School is more difficult than I thought it would be.
James told me not to give up. I feel like not only would I be disappointed in myself if I quit school, but I feel like I would let my parents, and my brother and James down too.
As I was laying on the floor next to my closet just sobbing, I just prayed. Every ounce of me wanted to give up. I wanted to go talk to my petty officers and see how I could get out of school.
I got up, washed my red, puffy, snotty face. I ate dinner. Sat down and finished my homework. Later in the shower I turned Pandora to praise and worship music. There is just something so peaceful about singing praises in the shower. The steam rises and I just feel like He is there and He hears and feels how much I need Him, how much I love Him and how much I want to please Him.
I am just a girl who day by day puts one foot in front of the other. That's more than I used to do. When you know that there is a purpose for your life (even if you don't quiet know what it is) you just keep going.
I used to be a quitter. I would try and exercise and I would give up after I didn't lose 20lbs in a week. I would try and eat healthy and then I see a cupcake, once you have one you have to have another and oops, there goes that day.
My recent success in diet, exercise, getting through boot camp is all due to God. It started as a cry for help to have self control in one area of my life.
Then little by little I found strength in myself that God had placed there all along. I just didn't know it.
You know how easy it is to find good in others yet you look at yourself and you can't find anything? I don't see that anymore. That is calling God a liar. I was made in his image. I am beautiful, loving, strong, smart, kind, helpful.
I have bad days, but I think it's God trying to pull something out of me that I didn't know was there. Think about it. How else do you grow if not by having those hard days?
He is so good and so faithful. He has placed loving parents who pray for me daily. A husband who supports me and allows me to grow as an individual and go chase my goals and dreams.
Having those things are more precious to me than anything. I am so blessed. So thankful. So humbled.
I'm just a girl, who puts on foot in front of the other.
Philippians 4:12-14 (NIV) I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, wether well fed or hungry, wether living in plenty or in want. I can do all this who gives me strength. Yet it was good of you to share in my troubles.
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! All of you have been so supportive and sweet. Offering insight and wisdom into my life. I'm so thankful to share this life with all of you. From my struggle to conceive, to losing weight, to realizing dreams and hard work go hand in hand. You guys are amazing.
-Audra
James told me not to give up. I feel like not only would I be disappointed in myself if I quit school, but I feel like I would let my parents, and my brother and James down too.
As I was laying on the floor next to my closet just sobbing, I just prayed. Every ounce of me wanted to give up. I wanted to go talk to my petty officers and see how I could get out of school.
I got up, washed my red, puffy, snotty face. I ate dinner. Sat down and finished my homework. Later in the shower I turned Pandora to praise and worship music. There is just something so peaceful about singing praises in the shower. The steam rises and I just feel like He is there and He hears and feels how much I need Him, how much I love Him and how much I want to please Him.
I am just a girl who day by day puts one foot in front of the other. That's more than I used to do. When you know that there is a purpose for your life (even if you don't quiet know what it is) you just keep going.
I used to be a quitter. I would try and exercise and I would give up after I didn't lose 20lbs in a week. I would try and eat healthy and then I see a cupcake, once you have one you have to have another and oops, there goes that day.
My recent success in diet, exercise, getting through boot camp is all due to God. It started as a cry for help to have self control in one area of my life.
Then little by little I found strength in myself that God had placed there all along. I just didn't know it.
You know how easy it is to find good in others yet you look at yourself and you can't find anything? I don't see that anymore. That is calling God a liar. I was made in his image. I am beautiful, loving, strong, smart, kind, helpful.
I have bad days, but I think it's God trying to pull something out of me that I didn't know was there. Think about it. How else do you grow if not by having those hard days?
He is so good and so faithful. He has placed loving parents who pray for me daily. A husband who supports me and allows me to grow as an individual and go chase my goals and dreams.
Having those things are more precious to me than anything. I am so blessed. So thankful. So humbled.
I'm just a girl, who puts on foot in front of the other.
Philippians 4:12-14 (NIV) I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, wether well fed or hungry, wether living in plenty or in want. I can do all this who gives me strength. Yet it was good of you to share in my troubles.
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! All of you have been so supportive and sweet. Offering insight and wisdom into my life. I'm so thankful to share this life with all of you. From my struggle to conceive, to losing weight, to realizing dreams and hard work go hand in hand. You guys are amazing.
-Audra
Monday, August 12, 2013
A-school and such
Hey guys!
This weekend was really great. I took my test on Friday and only missed 3 questions. Then it was my duty free weekend so I didn't have to worry about standing watch or staying in the building.
I went and watched Despicable Me 2 and the Lone Ranger. Both were really good. It's been awhile since a movie has had my full attention. I usually fall asleep or my brain just goes off on the things I need to be doing.
Today has not been that great. Today is my duty day and that's fine. On duty days you can only leave the building to go eat and you have to stay in the uniform of the day. (So I can't get comfy until it's time for bed.) Today was also my first day of AES. (I'm not sure what that acronym means.) It's basically where I didn't get my lesson done in class so I stay late and finish it. It's really great that they offer that so I don't get behind. Tomorrow morning I'll be with the rest of the class. They also have this thing called Open Learning. That is where you can stay late and just go over the lessons you have learned.
I know I'm going to try and go to open learning as often as I can.
I left the school house in tears. This stuff is not clicking. It really doesn't seem that complicated but today was an overload of formulas. I remember in math class in high school we would probably only learn one formula a week.
They told us coming into this school that the military has condensed the program. Probably so they aren't wasting taxpayers dollars and get us to our jobs more quickly. In the civilian world this program would be 3 months. Here it is just 1.
I am really discouraged. I want to do well, I really do. After today though I just want to get through it. If I fail 3 tests then they can and probably will set me back. They say that it is a small percent that actually gets dropped, most just get set back.
I want to be done as soon as I can. I miss my husband terribly.
On a positive note Psalm 46:1 God is our refuge and our strength, an ever present help in trouble.
I love you guys!
Please keep me in your prayers. I really need them.
This weekend was really great. I took my test on Friday and only missed 3 questions. Then it was my duty free weekend so I didn't have to worry about standing watch or staying in the building.
I went and watched Despicable Me 2 and the Lone Ranger. Both were really good. It's been awhile since a movie has had my full attention. I usually fall asleep or my brain just goes off on the things I need to be doing.
Today has not been that great. Today is my duty day and that's fine. On duty days you can only leave the building to go eat and you have to stay in the uniform of the day. (So I can't get comfy until it's time for bed.) Today was also my first day of AES. (I'm not sure what that acronym means.) It's basically where I didn't get my lesson done in class so I stay late and finish it. It's really great that they offer that so I don't get behind. Tomorrow morning I'll be with the rest of the class. They also have this thing called Open Learning. That is where you can stay late and just go over the lessons you have learned.
I know I'm going to try and go to open learning as often as I can.
I left the school house in tears. This stuff is not clicking. It really doesn't seem that complicated but today was an overload of formulas. I remember in math class in high school we would probably only learn one formula a week.
They told us coming into this school that the military has condensed the program. Probably so they aren't wasting taxpayers dollars and get us to our jobs more quickly. In the civilian world this program would be 3 months. Here it is just 1.
I am really discouraged. I want to do well, I really do. After today though I just want to get through it. If I fail 3 tests then they can and probably will set me back. They say that it is a small percent that actually gets dropped, most just get set back.
I want to be done as soon as I can. I miss my husband terribly.
On a positive note Psalm 46:1 God is our refuge and our strength, an ever present help in trouble.
I love you guys!
Please keep me in your prayers. I really need them.
Monday, July 22, 2013
On Hold
Hey guys,
Nothing big going on here really. Well James did just sign us to get base housing in Virginia. That's cool, it will be a 3 bedroom 2 1/2 bath townhouse. It has a 1/2 bath more than we have now, but it's less square footage.
I'm ready to start school and learn what I'm going to do and just get to James. Right now I'm on hold. My classes haven't started yet.
I know that I signed up for this and that I would miss him, but I REALLY miss him. It's just those little everyday things I got used to. Eating diner, watching tv, walking the dogs, going for a drive, going to the beach. Just having someone to talk to and hug everyday.
I say that I'm only going to do four years, he thinks I'll do eight since GMs (gunners mates) make rank quickly and the second term would be mostly shore duty. I guess we will see. I'm having a hard enough time now. We aren't even doing anything. I guess that could make the days feel longer.
I'm here to learn my job and go to school. Instead I clean all day. I know that once I get to the fleet as and E1-E3 I'll mostly be cleaning anyway. But while we are home-ported I'll get to go home every night. I won't have to worry about crappy connections.
I sound like everyone else around here, whiney.
I am thankful for a job and I hope to class up soon. I'm thankful I can wear civilian clothes again. I'm thankful James is going to come and see me at the end of August. I'm thankful to have someone who is worth missing this much.
If you pray for me pray that I make a good girlfriend around my age and that I class up quickly. I'm pretty shy in a large group of people until I get to know everyone. It's kinda putting me behind in the social ladder here. I know I'm not here to make friends, I'm here to learn my job. Life is just better when it is shared.
Man, I sound depressed. I'm not people. I am adjusting, but slowly.
I love you all and you guys have been really great encouragement. I'm so thankful to have you guys in my life.
Thanks for reading.
Love you,
Audra
Nothing big going on here really. Well James did just sign us to get base housing in Virginia. That's cool, it will be a 3 bedroom 2 1/2 bath townhouse. It has a 1/2 bath more than we have now, but it's less square footage.
I'm ready to start school and learn what I'm going to do and just get to James. Right now I'm on hold. My classes haven't started yet.
I know that I signed up for this and that I would miss him, but I REALLY miss him. It's just those little everyday things I got used to. Eating diner, watching tv, walking the dogs, going for a drive, going to the beach. Just having someone to talk to and hug everyday.
I say that I'm only going to do four years, he thinks I'll do eight since GMs (gunners mates) make rank quickly and the second term would be mostly shore duty. I guess we will see. I'm having a hard enough time now. We aren't even doing anything. I guess that could make the days feel longer.
I'm here to learn my job and go to school. Instead I clean all day. I know that once I get to the fleet as and E1-E3 I'll mostly be cleaning anyway. But while we are home-ported I'll get to go home every night. I won't have to worry about crappy connections.
I sound like everyone else around here, whiney.
I am thankful for a job and I hope to class up soon. I'm thankful I can wear civilian clothes again. I'm thankful James is going to come and see me at the end of August. I'm thankful to have someone who is worth missing this much.
If you pray for me pray that I make a good girlfriend around my age and that I class up quickly. I'm pretty shy in a large group of people until I get to know everyone. It's kinda putting me behind in the social ladder here. I know I'm not here to make friends, I'm here to learn my job. Life is just better when it is shared.
Man, I sound depressed. I'm not people. I am adjusting, but slowly.
I love you all and you guys have been really great encouragement. I'm so thankful to have you guys in my life.
Thanks for reading.
Love you,
Audra
Sunday, June 30, 2013
Update
Hey Guys!
My first update since boot camp. The internet on base isn't very good so I probably won't update again for another month. I'll be on facebook here and there when I hit a wifi hotspot.
Well I made it through boot camp! :)
It was exhausting but easier than I thought. I really didn't personally get yelled at. The RDC's just yelled at our division. They were pretty cool though. I thought there would be a lot more running and I thought we would be running in our boots but we didn't. I did get some pretty gnarly blisters on my heels, like half dollar size. They have become callused, so I have man feet. I also got pink eye twice, ewww. Other than that no major issues.
Today I felt different. I notice people noticing me in my uniform. People want to tell me about who they know in the military. People want to approach me. I also carry myself a little taller now. I feel honored to wear a uniform that represents our country. I have only just begun and have yet to realize what service actually means.
Today in the elevator I was polite and said good morning to a lady, normally I would have just stayed quiet. I feel like this uniform forces me out of my shell and to act in a manor that reflects the core values of the Navy. I feel that what I was taught in boot camp is lining up with what God has planned for me. I'm slightly anxious of how A-school will be. I'm excited to see where this path will lead.
I want to thank all of you who took the time to write me. I know everyone has busy lives and that you would take time out of your day to think of me means a lot. Mail call was the best time of day and I truly have a great support system.
James I missed you more than you know. To know you have my back and support me feels amazing. Going through this whole process my respect for you has grown even more. You are amazing. You are my best friend.
I love all of you! Can't wait to be caught up on what all of you have been doing.
-Audra
My first update since boot camp. The internet on base isn't very good so I probably won't update again for another month. I'll be on facebook here and there when I hit a wifi hotspot.
Well I made it through boot camp! :)
It was exhausting but easier than I thought. I really didn't personally get yelled at. The RDC's just yelled at our division. They were pretty cool though. I thought there would be a lot more running and I thought we would be running in our boots but we didn't. I did get some pretty gnarly blisters on my heels, like half dollar size. They have become callused, so I have man feet. I also got pink eye twice, ewww. Other than that no major issues.
Today I felt different. I notice people noticing me in my uniform. People want to tell me about who they know in the military. People want to approach me. I also carry myself a little taller now. I feel honored to wear a uniform that represents our country. I have only just begun and have yet to realize what service actually means.
Today in the elevator I was polite and said good morning to a lady, normally I would have just stayed quiet. I feel like this uniform forces me out of my shell and to act in a manor that reflects the core values of the Navy. I feel that what I was taught in boot camp is lining up with what God has planned for me. I'm slightly anxious of how A-school will be. I'm excited to see where this path will lead.
I want to thank all of you who took the time to write me. I know everyone has busy lives and that you would take time out of your day to think of me means a lot. Mail call was the best time of day and I truly have a great support system.
James I missed you more than you know. To know you have my back and support me feels amazing. Going through this whole process my respect for you has grown even more. You are amazing. You are my best friend.
I love all of you! Can't wait to be caught up on what all of you have been doing.
-Audra
Monday, April 29, 2013
Ready, Set, Go.
This is it guys, my last blog post before RTC. (Recruit Training Command)
This last week has been pretty crazy. My in-laws came down. They helped paint our wall back and took off some paint outside that James and I were too lazy to do. (Thanks guys! I love you.)
We spent that weekend hiking and went to LuLu's over in Gulf Shores and I can't even remember what else. My brain is all over the place.
This weekend was supposed to be fun and relaxing. Saturday we rented a boat thinking that would be fun. Weather was nice, boat and waves not so much. It was pretty choppy water and our boat was so little. I got seasick within 30 min. No throwing up, but headache and I was gagging like I was about to throw up. Not sure I'll be the best sailor! Haha.
After that I wanted to go to Dunkin Donuts to get an iced coffee. Caffeine helps with headaches right? I have never ordered from there so I just told the lady I wanted a sweet cold coffee. She said "We don't have that." What!? I see pictures of it on all the commercials. I can't help it if I don't know what it's called. You are supposed to know what I want lady. Customer service, come on. So I didn't get anything. Another waste of time on our last Saturday. James was frustrated with me. I don't feel well and am frustrated that he is frustrated. We went home and took naps. Once we woke up and ate dinner the rest of the night was nice and uneventful.
Sunday I was lazy for the first bit of the day. Made biscuits and gravy for breakfast. Took a nap, then I got to work. I cleaned out the deep freeze, the refrigerator, the closets, the shed. Pretty much everything. Then James took me to dinner out on Pensacola Beach. After dinner we just took the long way home and drove out to Santa Rosa beach and Navarre beach. It was nice and relaxing, exactly what I wanted. I teared up a little just thinking about how much I'm going to miss him and our life here in Pensacola.
I know this is what I want to do. I just can't help thinking "What are you doing Audra? Life is great and here you are throwing a job in the mix that is taking you away from everything you know."
When I tell people I'm joining the Navy one of the first things people ask is "What does your husband think?" I honestly don't know what he thinks. When I first talked about it a LONGGGGG time ago, he was against it. It wasn't even a possibility with how big I was anyway. Once I lost the weight and made him aware that I'm serious and I really want to join he was on board. He also wanted to make sure that this is what I want to do. I don't want to be separated from him, but it's part of it. I am pretty sure he isn't going to like being alone either. No one will be here to make him grilled cheese sandwiches.
I do know that he will like that he gets to have to whole bed to himself instead of the little sliver I give him now. He will be able to watch sports and fake wrestling anytime he wants. He can eat an entire bag of chips in one sitting without me saying something. I'm pretty sure he will enjoy all of that.
I just found out that I have to be at the recruiters office tomorrow morning at 0700. I know we can't even check into our hotel until 1530 (3:30pm). All tomorrow is, is just getting me to New Orleans. I was really hoping James could just drive me and we could leave around 1100. Now I have to wake up early for basically nothing. Welcome to the Military??? Wednesday I have to wake up at like 0345 and eat breakfast before 0430. The bus takes us to the base and we process. Then my flight to Great Lakes (where RTC is.) won't be until late Wednesday night cause they want you to be exhausted when they yell in your face. I will have to stay awake all Wednesday night and all Thursday until they tell me I can sleep on Thursday night. Please, please, please, please pray for me. I'm going to hate my life. I'm going to cry, I'm going to be exhausted. I know that a lot of this will be mental. This will probably be the hardest thing I have ever done.
Everyone says the first day is the hardest day and the first two weeks are the hardest weeks. After that they say that it's fun. I'm not sure if their definition of fun will be the same as mine.
I'm worried about making friends. I'm 27, not 17. I'm worried about being put into a leadership position and not being able to take the pressure. I'm worried of falling asleep. I love my naps ya'll. Please pray for these areas specifically.
There is so much more I could say, but I think I'll get off here and update you guys once I am a United States Sailor! I'm going to be so proud of myself. I can't wait until James and my dad see me in my uniform. I'm going to cry, happy proud tears of course.
I love you all!
I want to give shout outs
To my mom -Mom you are an amazing women. I love you so much and am so grateful you are in my life. I hope to be the women of God you are.
To my dad -Dad I love you. I still think of myself as your little girl. I hope to make you proud. I am proud of you and proud to be your daughter.
To my love -James, you are my partner in life and love. You are the first person I want to tell about my day. You are my best friend. I am so glad you are my husband. I am grateful to you for letting me take this adventure. Grateful that we are in this adventure together. I love you.
2 Kings 6:16 "Don't be afraid," the prophet answered. "Those who are with us are more than those who are with them."
Isaiah 40: 29-31 He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. Even youth grow tired and weary, and young me will stumble and fall; but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar high on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.
Joshua 1:9 "Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go."
This last week has been pretty crazy. My in-laws came down. They helped paint our wall back and took off some paint outside that James and I were too lazy to do. (Thanks guys! I love you.)
We spent that weekend hiking and went to LuLu's over in Gulf Shores and I can't even remember what else. My brain is all over the place.
This weekend was supposed to be fun and relaxing. Saturday we rented a boat thinking that would be fun. Weather was nice, boat and waves not so much. It was pretty choppy water and our boat was so little. I got seasick within 30 min. No throwing up, but headache and I was gagging like I was about to throw up. Not sure I'll be the best sailor! Haha.
After that I wanted to go to Dunkin Donuts to get an iced coffee. Caffeine helps with headaches right? I have never ordered from there so I just told the lady I wanted a sweet cold coffee. She said "We don't have that." What!? I see pictures of it on all the commercials. I can't help it if I don't know what it's called. You are supposed to know what I want lady. Customer service, come on. So I didn't get anything. Another waste of time on our last Saturday. James was frustrated with me. I don't feel well and am frustrated that he is frustrated. We went home and took naps. Once we woke up and ate dinner the rest of the night was nice and uneventful.
Sunday I was lazy for the first bit of the day. Made biscuits and gravy for breakfast. Took a nap, then I got to work. I cleaned out the deep freeze, the refrigerator, the closets, the shed. Pretty much everything. Then James took me to dinner out on Pensacola Beach. After dinner we just took the long way home and drove out to Santa Rosa beach and Navarre beach. It was nice and relaxing, exactly what I wanted. I teared up a little just thinking about how much I'm going to miss him and our life here in Pensacola.
I know this is what I want to do. I just can't help thinking "What are you doing Audra? Life is great and here you are throwing a job in the mix that is taking you away from everything you know."
When I tell people I'm joining the Navy one of the first things people ask is "What does your husband think?" I honestly don't know what he thinks. When I first talked about it a LONGGGGG time ago, he was against it. It wasn't even a possibility with how big I was anyway. Once I lost the weight and made him aware that I'm serious and I really want to join he was on board. He also wanted to make sure that this is what I want to do. I don't want to be separated from him, but it's part of it. I am pretty sure he isn't going to like being alone either. No one will be here to make him grilled cheese sandwiches.
I do know that he will like that he gets to have to whole bed to himself instead of the little sliver I give him now. He will be able to watch sports and fake wrestling anytime he wants. He can eat an entire bag of chips in one sitting without me saying something. I'm pretty sure he will enjoy all of that.
I just found out that I have to be at the recruiters office tomorrow morning at 0700. I know we can't even check into our hotel until 1530 (3:30pm). All tomorrow is, is just getting me to New Orleans. I was really hoping James could just drive me and we could leave around 1100. Now I have to wake up early for basically nothing. Welcome to the Military??? Wednesday I have to wake up at like 0345 and eat breakfast before 0430. The bus takes us to the base and we process. Then my flight to Great Lakes (where RTC is.) won't be until late Wednesday night cause they want you to be exhausted when they yell in your face. I will have to stay awake all Wednesday night and all Thursday until they tell me I can sleep on Thursday night. Please, please, please, please pray for me. I'm going to hate my life. I'm going to cry, I'm going to be exhausted. I know that a lot of this will be mental. This will probably be the hardest thing I have ever done.
Everyone says the first day is the hardest day and the first two weeks are the hardest weeks. After that they say that it's fun. I'm not sure if their definition of fun will be the same as mine.
I'm worried about making friends. I'm 27, not 17. I'm worried about being put into a leadership position and not being able to take the pressure. I'm worried of falling asleep. I love my naps ya'll. Please pray for these areas specifically.
There is so much more I could say, but I think I'll get off here and update you guys once I am a United States Sailor! I'm going to be so proud of myself. I can't wait until James and my dad see me in my uniform. I'm going to cry, happy proud tears of course.
I love you all!
I want to give shout outs
To my mom -Mom you are an amazing women. I love you so much and am so grateful you are in my life. I hope to be the women of God you are.
To my dad -Dad I love you. I still think of myself as your little girl. I hope to make you proud. I am proud of you and proud to be your daughter.
To my love -James, you are my partner in life and love. You are the first person I want to tell about my day. You are my best friend. I am so glad you are my husband. I am grateful to you for letting me take this adventure. Grateful that we are in this adventure together. I love you.
2 Kings 6:16 "Don't be afraid," the prophet answered. "Those who are with us are more than those who are with them."
Isaiah 40: 29-31 He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. Even youth grow tired and weary, and young me will stumble and fall; but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar high on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.
Joshua 1:9 "Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go."
Monday, April 15, 2013
Desire
I have this desire to be the best person I can be. The thing that stops me is...me.
We were talking about the 7 deadly sins at work today. (Proverbs 6:16-19, Galatians 5:19-21)
I could have sworn that being lazy was one of them, maybe it is, just not in the versions I have read. Or maybe they are in another book of the Bible.
Instead of focusing on the things I don't want to be I want to focus on the ones I do want to be.
Galatians 5:22-23 But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patients, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things!
Proverbs 31:1-3 Who can find a virtuos and capable wife? She is more precious than rubies. Her husband can trust her and she will greatly enrich his life. She brings him good and not harm all the days of her life.
Proverbs 31:17 She is energetic and strong, a hard worker.
Proverbs 31:20 She extends a helping hand to the poor and opens her arms to the needy.
Proverbs 31:25-27 She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future. When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness. She carefully watches everything in her house and suffers nothing from laziness.
I want to be like that. Loving, hard working, energetic, wise, helpful and kind. So many things I want to be.
How am I going to put the things I want to be into practice? Lord help me to become this women. When life situations arise that make me want to react in a way that is not Yours, help me to remember who I want to be in You.
We were talking about the 7 deadly sins at work today. (Proverbs 6:16-19, Galatians 5:19-21)
I could have sworn that being lazy was one of them, maybe it is, just not in the versions I have read. Or maybe they are in another book of the Bible.
Instead of focusing on the things I don't want to be I want to focus on the ones I do want to be.
Galatians 5:22-23 But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patients, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things!
Proverbs 31:1-3 Who can find a virtuos and capable wife? She is more precious than rubies. Her husband can trust her and she will greatly enrich his life. She brings him good and not harm all the days of her life.
Proverbs 31:17 She is energetic and strong, a hard worker.
Proverbs 31:20 She extends a helping hand to the poor and opens her arms to the needy.
Proverbs 31:25-27 She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future. When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness. She carefully watches everything in her house and suffers nothing from laziness.
I want to be like that. Loving, hard working, energetic, wise, helpful and kind. So many things I want to be.
How am I going to put the things I want to be into practice? Lord help me to become this women. When life situations arise that make me want to react in a way that is not Yours, help me to remember who I want to be in You.
Ugly Run
I told you guys that I have been running with James' command. They do a large group PT with all the students on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays. On Tuesdays and Thursdays the turtle group (that's me!) meets up and does just a little warm up with 15 min cardio then a cool down. 30-45 min tops.
Last week I was good. I was motivated. I was like yeah buddy, I can do this. Today.....was UGLY! Man, I hated every minute of that run. It was humid, my glasses fogged up and I had to take them off, then I couldn't see. I was red faced, sweaty, slow, breathing hard. I stopped running for about a minute just before we were halfway done. The last girl behind me caught up to me then she wanted to stop cause I stopped.
Well crap, now I have to keep running so this girl will run. Pump my arms, pump my arms, pump my arms. Don't stop, get it, get it. Pump my arms. Jesus help me. Breathe. Pump my arms.
I knew I shouldn't have ate those rolls and mashed potatoes last night! I keep going. I was trying to let my body rest this weekend so I didn't do anything unlike last weekend where I just did a little running on both Saturday and Sunday. Apparently I'm not allowed to take two days off cause today just plan sucked. I keep going.
I run the whole rest of the way and complete the stupid 3 mile run. Sweat dripping, red faced, can't breathe, I did it. BAM! Boo Yah! It was ugly, but I did it.
All that to do it again on Wednesday.
Colossians 3:23 Whatever work you do, do it with all your heart. Do it for the Lord and not for men.
Last week I was good. I was motivated. I was like yeah buddy, I can do this. Today.....was UGLY! Man, I hated every minute of that run. It was humid, my glasses fogged up and I had to take them off, then I couldn't see. I was red faced, sweaty, slow, breathing hard. I stopped running for about a minute just before we were halfway done. The last girl behind me caught up to me then she wanted to stop cause I stopped.
Well crap, now I have to keep running so this girl will run. Pump my arms, pump my arms, pump my arms. Don't stop, get it, get it. Pump my arms. Jesus help me. Breathe. Pump my arms.
I knew I shouldn't have ate those rolls and mashed potatoes last night! I keep going. I was trying to let my body rest this weekend so I didn't do anything unlike last weekend where I just did a little running on both Saturday and Sunday. Apparently I'm not allowed to take two days off cause today just plan sucked. I keep going.
I run the whole rest of the way and complete the stupid 3 mile run. Sweat dripping, red faced, can't breathe, I did it. BAM! Boo Yah! It was ugly, but I did it.
All that to do it again on Wednesday.
Colossians 3:23 Whatever work you do, do it with all your heart. Do it for the Lord and not for men.
Friday, April 5, 2013
I Can
Hey Guys! Today I did the PRT (physical readiness test) with James' command. I did better than I thought I would. Yay!
Monday was my first day of actual running. I have never really ran before, more than from here to the stop sign type of deal. So Monday I was like, "Okay Audra, let's see what you can do." Well I ran on the treadmill for almost 20 min without stoping. I was proud of myself for that. Then I just did intervals of walking/running until the hour was up.
Wednesday I went to the command PT. I felt a little awkward, just a civilian with all these Navy peeps. Once we got started it wasn't so bad. When we started running though, thats another story. They started running at a pretty fast pace. James was next to me for that part. I was like "Babe, I can't do it. They are going too fast. They are 19 yrs old."
He said, "Exactly, they are 19 yrs old. They get beat everyday, and they are right there in front of you. You can do this."
Mind you we were only like 2 blocks into the run. I was already feeling like I'm in way over my head. He said just wait, they will start dropping like flies. Sure enough I started passing people. He told me to just pump my arms. I kept saying in my head, "pump my arms, pump my arms, pump my arms." You know what happend? I kept going. I was able to complete the 3 mile run with the group and I was even ahead of about 15 people. I was so proud of myself. I ran for about 45 mins. 45 MINUTES!!! That is such a long time for me. I'm still proud of myself.
Today was the PRT. I have to tell you I did fail on the sit ups. For my age, I need to be able to complete 43 sit-ups in 2 minutes. I did 34. I need to complete 13 push-ups in 2 minutes and I did 23. Yay! I need to run the mile and a half in 16:08 I ran it in 15:12 or 15:20. I was too exhausted to really hear. I thought I was going to throw up. I did it though! I'm so proud of myself! I wanted to cry, but I didn't want everyone looking at me even more so I held it back. AHHHHHHH! I can do this guys.
A year ago I never would have thought this was possible. In the process of trying to lose weight and get my body healthy to carry a baby this dream to join the military came alive again. I have lost 37 pounds over the past year. I still need to lose about 10 more pounds to comfortably pass the weigh in. For my height of 64.5 in I need to weigh less than 160. At 160, I will get measured. I weighed in at 159. If they measure me a half inch shorter I need to weigh 156.
I have discovered in just this past week that I am capable of more than I thought. I want this. I pray for this and about this. I still get scared but when I complete a run I'm excited. I'm going to succeed. If I'm the only one who believes in me, that's enough. I'm enough. I CAN!
Philippians 4:13 I can do all things through Him who gives me strength.
Monday was my first day of actual running. I have never really ran before, more than from here to the stop sign type of deal. So Monday I was like, "Okay Audra, let's see what you can do." Well I ran on the treadmill for almost 20 min without stoping. I was proud of myself for that. Then I just did intervals of walking/running until the hour was up.
Wednesday I went to the command PT. I felt a little awkward, just a civilian with all these Navy peeps. Once we got started it wasn't so bad. When we started running though, thats another story. They started running at a pretty fast pace. James was next to me for that part. I was like "Babe, I can't do it. They are going too fast. They are 19 yrs old."
He said, "Exactly, they are 19 yrs old. They get beat everyday, and they are right there in front of you. You can do this."
Mind you we were only like 2 blocks into the run. I was already feeling like I'm in way over my head. He said just wait, they will start dropping like flies. Sure enough I started passing people. He told me to just pump my arms. I kept saying in my head, "pump my arms, pump my arms, pump my arms." You know what happend? I kept going. I was able to complete the 3 mile run with the group and I was even ahead of about 15 people. I was so proud of myself. I ran for about 45 mins. 45 MINUTES!!! That is such a long time for me. I'm still proud of myself.
Today was the PRT. I have to tell you I did fail on the sit ups. For my age, I need to be able to complete 43 sit-ups in 2 minutes. I did 34. I need to complete 13 push-ups in 2 minutes and I did 23. Yay! I need to run the mile and a half in 16:08 I ran it in 15:12 or 15:20. I was too exhausted to really hear. I thought I was going to throw up. I did it though! I'm so proud of myself! I wanted to cry, but I didn't want everyone looking at me even more so I held it back. AHHHHHHH! I can do this guys.
A year ago I never would have thought this was possible. In the process of trying to lose weight and get my body healthy to carry a baby this dream to join the military came alive again. I have lost 37 pounds over the past year. I still need to lose about 10 more pounds to comfortably pass the weigh in. For my height of 64.5 in I need to weigh less than 160. At 160, I will get measured. I weighed in at 159. If they measure me a half inch shorter I need to weigh 156.
I have discovered in just this past week that I am capable of more than I thought. I want this. I pray for this and about this. I still get scared but when I complete a run I'm excited. I'm going to succeed. If I'm the only one who believes in me, that's enough. I'm enough. I CAN!
Philippians 4:13 I can do all things through Him who gives me strength.
Tuesday, March 26, 2013
Best Husband Ever
Ya'll I have to tell you my husband, is the best one ever. I know I've talked about him on here before, but I just can't resist from posting again.
He is supportive of doing what I want to do, all the time. Not just with joining the Navy. We watch the shows I want to watch. We are eating healthy this month to ensure I am ready for basic training and even when I'm not there he chose to have a salad with his work buddies instead of something else. (I on the other had eat spoonfuls of peanut butter when I'm alone.) The past couple of weekends we went hiking and used our new off-brand camel-bak backpacks. Hopefully hiking can be a new healthy hobby for us.
He spoils me. He posted the other day about how I had never filled my car up with gas. It's true. We got it in December and until just after he posted that, I had never filled it up.
He makes me laugh. I know that sounds generic, but he is funny. For instance, he took my phone (when I wasn't around) and took a picture of himself making a funny face and put that as his picture when he calls me. Now every time he calls his funny face pops up and I answer the phone laughing. Genius, I tell you.
He loves our dogs. I know he is supposed to and I know it will make my heart melt 100+ more times when it's our (future) baby that he is loving, but I love that he loves animals.
He hugs me. It's that "everything will be alright" hug. Pulls my heartstrings and calms me down every time.
He always shares his candy with me. (That's love folks!) Yes we are eating healthy and still eating candy. We can do that right?
He loves me. I can feel it. I can see it. I can hear it.
I am so blessed to have him as my husband. This year has been the best one yet. I'm over the moon in love with him.
We are a team. We have each others back. I know that the rest of this year is going to be a bit crazy for us. I do ask that you keep us in your prayers as we will be apart. You can never have too much support and I am asking for yours.
I love you.
Audra
He is supportive of doing what I want to do, all the time. Not just with joining the Navy. We watch the shows I want to watch. We are eating healthy this month to ensure I am ready for basic training and even when I'm not there he chose to have a salad with his work buddies instead of something else. (I on the other had eat spoonfuls of peanut butter when I'm alone.) The past couple of weekends we went hiking and used our new off-brand camel-bak backpacks. Hopefully hiking can be a new healthy hobby for us.
He spoils me. He posted the other day about how I had never filled my car up with gas. It's true. We got it in December and until just after he posted that, I had never filled it up.
He makes me laugh. I know that sounds generic, but he is funny. For instance, he took my phone (when I wasn't around) and took a picture of himself making a funny face and put that as his picture when he calls me. Now every time he calls his funny face pops up and I answer the phone laughing. Genius, I tell you.
He loves our dogs. I know he is supposed to and I know it will make my heart melt 100+ more times when it's our (future) baby that he is loving, but I love that he loves animals.
He hugs me. It's that "everything will be alright" hug. Pulls my heartstrings and calms me down every time.
He always shares his candy with me. (That's love folks!) Yes we are eating healthy and still eating candy. We can do that right?
He loves me. I can feel it. I can see it. I can hear it.
I am so blessed to have him as my husband. This year has been the best one yet. I'm over the moon in love with him.
We are a team. We have each others back. I know that the rest of this year is going to be a bit crazy for us. I do ask that you keep us in your prayers as we will be apart. You can never have too much support and I am asking for yours.
I love you.
Audra
Sunday, March 17, 2013
Trust
It's been awhile since I gave an update. I have been debating on what to say or if I should say anything, but here goes.
Tomorrow morning I am heading with one of the recruiters over to New Orleans. I will be going through the screening process and swearing into the Navy on Tuesday. I am so excited! I also have little moments where my heart beats really fast and I have no idea what I am about to do. Then I take a deep breath and think on what my pastor has been saying for the past month about trusting God. More importantly I think on who God says I am in Him.
You see, I can't do this on my own. I'm not one of those strong willed women who think I can do anything a man can do. That's not who I am. I do know though that I can do anything God says I can. He didn't say it would be easy, in fact he says the opposite. Isaiah 43:2 When you go through the deep waters and great trouble, I will be with you. When you go through the rivers of difficulty, you will not drown! When you walk through the fire of oppression, you will not be burned up; the flames will not consume you.
I know I can't do this on my own. I don't want to think I can do this on my own either. I don't want to become prideful or take light of this by saying, "Oh, people join the military all the time. You grew up military, you married military. You are familiar with this." Those are comforting words to say to myself, but they make me believe in myself, not in God.
John 17:13-21 "And now I am coming to you. I have told them many things while I was with them so they would be filled with my joy. I have given them your word. And the world hates them because they do not belong to the world, just as I do not. I am not asking that you keep them out of the world, but to keep them safe from the evil one. They are not part of this world any more than I am. Make them pure and holy by teaching them your words of truth. As you sent me into the world, I am sending them into the world. And I give myself entirely to you so they also might be entirely yours. I am praying not only for these disciples but also for all who will ever believe in me because of their testimony. My prayer for all of them is that they will be one, just as you and I are one, Father- that just as you are in me and I am in you, so they will be in us, and the world will believe you sent me.
I believe God has set it up for me to do this, in this season of my life. I believe that with God, joining the military will be a catalyst. Setting into motion his work through me.
I am asking for you as a reader to be in my corner. I need to be reminded who I am in Christ. I need cheerleaders. Pray these versus over me. Philippians 1:2-6 May God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ give you grace and peace. Every time I think of you I give thanks to my God. I always pray for you and I make my requests with a heart full of joy because you have been my partners in spreading the Good News about Christ from the time you first heard it until now. And I am sure that God, who began the good work within you, will continue his work until it is finally finished on that day when Christ Jesus comes back again.
With Love,
Audra
Tomorrow morning I am heading with one of the recruiters over to New Orleans. I will be going through the screening process and swearing into the Navy on Tuesday. I am so excited! I also have little moments where my heart beats really fast and I have no idea what I am about to do. Then I take a deep breath and think on what my pastor has been saying for the past month about trusting God. More importantly I think on who God says I am in Him.
You see, I can't do this on my own. I'm not one of those strong willed women who think I can do anything a man can do. That's not who I am. I do know though that I can do anything God says I can. He didn't say it would be easy, in fact he says the opposite. Isaiah 43:2 When you go through the deep waters and great trouble, I will be with you. When you go through the rivers of difficulty, you will not drown! When you walk through the fire of oppression, you will not be burned up; the flames will not consume you.
I know I can't do this on my own. I don't want to think I can do this on my own either. I don't want to become prideful or take light of this by saying, "Oh, people join the military all the time. You grew up military, you married military. You are familiar with this." Those are comforting words to say to myself, but they make me believe in myself, not in God.
John 17:13-21 "And now I am coming to you. I have told them many things while I was with them so they would be filled with my joy. I have given them your word. And the world hates them because they do not belong to the world, just as I do not. I am not asking that you keep them out of the world, but to keep them safe from the evil one. They are not part of this world any more than I am. Make them pure and holy by teaching them your words of truth. As you sent me into the world, I am sending them into the world. And I give myself entirely to you so they also might be entirely yours. I am praying not only for these disciples but also for all who will ever believe in me because of their testimony. My prayer for all of them is that they will be one, just as you and I are one, Father- that just as you are in me and I am in you, so they will be in us, and the world will believe you sent me.
I believe God has set it up for me to do this, in this season of my life. I believe that with God, joining the military will be a catalyst. Setting into motion his work through me.
I am asking for you as a reader to be in my corner. I need to be reminded who I am in Christ. I need cheerleaders. Pray these versus over me. Philippians 1:2-6 May God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ give you grace and peace. Every time I think of you I give thanks to my God. I always pray for you and I make my requests with a heart full of joy because you have been my partners in spreading the Good News about Christ from the time you first heard it until now. And I am sure that God, who began the good work within you, will continue his work until it is finally finished on that day when Christ Jesus comes back again.
With Love,
Audra
Tuesday, February 12, 2013
Valentine
Valentines day is this week. Some love this holiday and some could care less. I am in the former group. I will shamelessly tell the world, I LOVE VALENTINES DAY!
I have heard several different stories of the origin of Valentines day. The one I like the best is this ruler guy who was in charge of some soldiers noticed that the single guys were better in battle than the married guys with families. He decided everyone would be a better fighter if no one could get married, so he made it illegal. That is where Saint Valentine comes in. He still preformed weddings in secret. Awe! Such a romantic that Valentine! Then he was killed for preforming those weddings...yikes.
I like what Valentines day represents (war and murder!). It's not the chocolate or the flowers. We have the freedom to love and get married in public. On Valentines day we celebrate that we get to love out loud!
Also, a reminder ladies, Valentines is not all about you. It's about expressing your love, appreciation, and respect. Send your man a sexy little text. Rent the movie that he wants to see. Write a note on his mirror or leave a sticky note on the steering wheel for him before he goes to work. Don't wait for him to call up someone to watch the kids, be proactive! Do something for him that lets him know you think he is really something great.
Yes, those things can and should be done all year! If you haven't been loving out loud then start now. You have that freedom, so celebrate it!
I have heard several different stories of the origin of Valentines day. The one I like the best is this ruler guy who was in charge of some soldiers noticed that the single guys were better in battle than the married guys with families. He decided everyone would be a better fighter if no one could get married, so he made it illegal. That is where Saint Valentine comes in. He still preformed weddings in secret. Awe! Such a romantic that Valentine! Then he was killed for preforming those weddings...yikes.
I like what Valentines day represents (war and murder!). It's not the chocolate or the flowers. We have the freedom to love and get married in public. On Valentines day we celebrate that we get to love out loud!
Also, a reminder ladies, Valentines is not all about you. It's about expressing your love, appreciation, and respect. Send your man a sexy little text. Rent the movie that he wants to see. Write a note on his mirror or leave a sticky note on the steering wheel for him before he goes to work. Don't wait for him to call up someone to watch the kids, be proactive! Do something for him that lets him know you think he is really something great.
Yes, those things can and should be done all year! If you haven't been loving out loud then start now. You have that freedom, so celebrate it!
Monday, January 28, 2013
The God of Angel Armies is Always by My Side
I heard this song on the way to work today and I was so encouraged. I had to look up the story behind the song.
The video player is too small for the actual song but I hope you will go take a listen and be encouraged like I was. I just have it playing on repeat and am having my own praise session going on over here.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qOkImV2cJDg
Sunday, January 27, 2013
Guard My Heart and Mind
I have had nightmares the last two nights. I don't often have nightmares and to have them two nights in a row has me thinking. I don't know if I am under a spiritual attack or if they are a sign or if I am just anxious.
Last night my nightmare started off with me and my parents going to take the ASVAB together. They felt the need to take it to compare themselves to me. I just remember feeling inadequate in comparison to them. Somehow I end up on a train in Japan trying to call my mom to tell her I wouldn't be able to take the test. I couldn't call her though, my phone was out of minutes. I was desperate to get in touch with her and couldn't. I wasn't even able to use a credit card to pay to talk to her. The train was moving fast and I had to make a decision to get off or stay on. I get off. I get out and everyone is looking at this cloud approaching. It turns into a tornado and everyone runs in panic to find shelter. I am left all alone. All of a sudden this American girl drives up and spins her car in front of me and the passenger side opens to me and she yells at me to get in. I do. We drive off in this storm with hail and debris all around us, she has a phone and yells for me to call my mom. Then I wake up.
Tonight I dreamt I was working at a secure military facility. There is a guy that walks in and I recognize him. I don't know him personally but I see he is evil and nervous. Then a team of these terrorist walk in and I try to alert everyone we are under attack. It is too late. They have this other girl and dismember her and sew aircraft wings onto her back. I am being held down and watching this then I pass in and out of consciousness and they are doing the same thing to me. When I wake up I have these large B2 stealth bomber wings on my back. Then I wake up, sweating.
I have looked up certain key pieces from these dreams. Tornado is expressing chaos or being overwhelmed. Being in a foreign country means something unfamiliar like a change in routine or a job. To dream of being attacked indicates that my character is being questioned, I feel the need to defend myself, or that I may be facing difficult changes in real life. Being dismembered means removing parts of your life that you have trouble with, or are struggling with new changes.
All of these make sense to me, but they seem so violent. That is what makes me think it could be a spiritual attack. I have heard that once you start an action moving towards what God wants you to do, forces of evil will try and stop you.
I know that I truly am scared for these changes that are about to happen. It's the fear of the unknown. The fear of serving during this time with everything going on in our country. The fear that our nation is turing evil and I will be forced obey orders that go against what God says. The fear of being separated from my husband.
I truly feel this is something I am supposed to do. I have this picture that I will be able to help people in third world countries through military volunteer opportunities. I ideally want to be a dental assistant, it all depends on my ASVAB score and the needs of the Navy. I have this vision where I get to assist with cleft palate operations and other dental facial surgeries. I bring joy and love and hope with me to a hopeless people.
Once I woke up from my nightmare I began to pray for peace of mind. I sent my mom a text message about the dreams and she replied with a prayer. I turned on my praise music and looked up Bible verses on peace.
Isaiah 54:10 Though the mountains be shaken and the hills be removed, yet my unfailing love for you will not be shaken nor my covenant of peace be removed," says the LORD, who has compassion on you.
Isaiah 55:12 You will go out in joy and be led forth in peace; the mountains and hills will burst into song before you, and all the trees will clap their hands.
John 14:27 Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. I do not give peace as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.
John 16:33 "I have told you these things, so that you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world."
Romans 15:13 May the God of hope fill you with all the joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.
Philippians 4:6-7 Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
I serve a BIG God. Bigger than my fears, bigger than any evil spirits, bigger than doubt.
Lord I pray to be lost in You. Let me pray continually. Bring peace of mind to me. May Your peace guard my heart and mind in Christ Jesus. Thank You for the work You are doing in me. Thank You for the work that You will allow to be done through me. Let me be invisible so that all that is visible is You.
Thursday, January 10, 2013
Prayers Answered and Prayers Needed
Hey Guys! Guess What!? I have a positive answer to prayer about joining the military. I get to go ahead and sign up here and go through DEP (delayed entry program, that is 6 months) here, AND I get to move when scheduled WITH James and then leave for boot camp from our new place. I was pretty worried that I might have to stay behind or go right before and then not know our new address and not have anyway to send or receive letters from James and that made me scared and sad and have a slight panic attack.
Another cool thing, when I swear in, James should be able to do that. That means so much to me and is so cool that my husband can do that with/for me.
Here is where I would still appreciate any prayers, encouragement, and positive feedback. I am going to take the ASVAB on February 1st. I'm pretty stressed, not gonna lie. It has been nearly 10 years since I had an algebra class. The most important parts of the exam are English and Math. The highest a person can score for the Navy is a 99, and a minimum of 50. I got a 57 on the practice test ya'll. I'm pretty embarrassed about that. They said that the practice test scores lower than the actual test, but I think they were just trying to make me feel good and join ASAP so they get their numbers or whatever.
After I take the ASVAB I will be going to New Orleans to have a full day of paperwork and swearing in and anything else they need. I have already done the background check online and let me tell you, that was a JOB. There is a reason you join after high school. You have no history yet. In the past ten years I have moved 9 times! I have had so many jobs, they go all the way back to high school for that too. They also needed info on my husband, my parents, my brothers, and my in-laws. It just seems a bit excessive.
The other thing I need prayers and encouragement is my weight. I technically need to lose 11 pounds. I feel like she measured me tall though, so I may need to lose more. I want to lose 15 pounds to allow that leeway in case I'm actually shorter. I feel great right now. I'm a size 12. I'm more confident than the last time I was a 12. I don't feel fat, I feel normal. Therefore, I have lost my drive. The fact is I still NEED to lose weight. I just need some motivation.
That is what is going on. I'm excited, scared, nervous, happy, sooooo many emotions.
I love you.
Audra
Another cool thing, when I swear in, James should be able to do that. That means so much to me and is so cool that my husband can do that with/for me.
Here is where I would still appreciate any prayers, encouragement, and positive feedback. I am going to take the ASVAB on February 1st. I'm pretty stressed, not gonna lie. It has been nearly 10 years since I had an algebra class. The most important parts of the exam are English and Math. The highest a person can score for the Navy is a 99, and a minimum of 50. I got a 57 on the practice test ya'll. I'm pretty embarrassed about that. They said that the practice test scores lower than the actual test, but I think they were just trying to make me feel good and join ASAP so they get their numbers or whatever.
After I take the ASVAB I will be going to New Orleans to have a full day of paperwork and swearing in and anything else they need. I have already done the background check online and let me tell you, that was a JOB. There is a reason you join after high school. You have no history yet. In the past ten years I have moved 9 times! I have had so many jobs, they go all the way back to high school for that too. They also needed info on my husband, my parents, my brothers, and my in-laws. It just seems a bit excessive.
The other thing I need prayers and encouragement is my weight. I technically need to lose 11 pounds. I feel like she measured me tall though, so I may need to lose more. I want to lose 15 pounds to allow that leeway in case I'm actually shorter. I feel great right now. I'm a size 12. I'm more confident than the last time I was a 12. I don't feel fat, I feel normal. Therefore, I have lost my drive. The fact is I still NEED to lose weight. I just need some motivation.
That is what is going on. I'm excited, scared, nervous, happy, sooooo many emotions.
I love you.
Audra
Thursday, January 3, 2013
Quotes I Love
A women is like a tea bag - you can't tell how strong she is until you put her in hot water. -Eleanor Roosevelt
I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. -Maya Angelou
Be sure to put your feet in the right place, then stand firm. -Abraham Lincoln
Why not go out on a limb? That's where the fruit is. -Mark Twain
Not all of us can do great things. But we can all do small things with great love. -Mother Teresa
You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You're on your own, and you know what you know. And you are the guy who'll decide where to go. -Dr. Seuss
You may not realize it when it happens, but a kick in the teeth may be the best thing in the world for you. -Walt Disney
If you can dream it, you can do it. -Walt Disney
Believe you can and you're halfway there. -Theodore Roosevelt
When you see someone putting on his Big Boots, you can be pretty sure that an adventure is going to happen. -Winnie the Pooh
An arrow can only be shot by pulling it backwards. So when life is dragging you back with difficulties, it means that it is going to launch you into something great. - Unknown Author
I've always believed that if you put in the work, the results will come. -Michael Jordan
I'm not funny. What I am is brave. -Lucille Ball
I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. -Maya Angelou
Be sure to put your feet in the right place, then stand firm. -Abraham Lincoln
Why not go out on a limb? That's where the fruit is. -Mark Twain
Not all of us can do great things. But we can all do small things with great love. -Mother Teresa
You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You're on your own, and you know what you know. And you are the guy who'll decide where to go. -Dr. Seuss
You may not realize it when it happens, but a kick in the teeth may be the best thing in the world for you. -Walt Disney
If you can dream it, you can do it. -Walt Disney
Believe you can and you're halfway there. -Theodore Roosevelt
When you see someone putting on his Big Boots, you can be pretty sure that an adventure is going to happen. -Winnie the Pooh
An arrow can only be shot by pulling it backwards. So when life is dragging you back with difficulties, it means that it is going to launch you into something great. - Unknown Author
I've always believed that if you put in the work, the results will come. -Michael Jordan
I'm not funny. What I am is brave. -Lucille Ball
Wednesday, January 2, 2013
2013
Happy New Year!
2012 was interesting to say the least. My best friend got married. I lost some weight. Discovered some infertility issues. Some friendships grew, some have started to wither. No drama or hard feelings, and there is still fondness and love, just different interests and lifestyles. It is a fact of life I guess, a little sad. I've learned about myself in this process. Some of myself I like, and some of myself could use some more work.
I feel incredibly blessed in my marriage. James is my absolute favorite person on planet Earth.
I have a lot of plans for 2013. Due to infertility I have decided to take a little side-step in our path to starting a family. (I say "I" instead of "we" because though James supports my decisions, he understands that it is still mine to make. I don't take that lightly. We have respect for each other and if he was ever against anything I would reconsider.) I will be joining the Navy! I went and talked to the recruiter before we went home. We were able to tell both sets of parents our plans. I'm excited and scared to start this journey.
I realize some of you won't agree with my decision and I'm sorry if you feel that way. Life doesn't always work out how we plan and sometimes that can end up being the best part. This may not be for me, however 4 years isn't forever.
There is still a lot to be done. I still have a lot of questions myself. I have 11 pounds to lose to meet military requirements for my height. I am currently studying to take the ASVAB at the end of the month. I am calling the recruiter tomorrow to get the date for that. Once that is done I plan to swear in! AHHHHH! so exciting and nerve wracking! I have to be on the Delayed Entry Program for 6 months before they ship me off for boot camp. In that program they will teach me the sailors creed and other military things. That should put me right into the month of August. We are due to move that month with James' orders so I'm not sure how that will work. I hope to be able to move us and then go to boot camp, but we will see. I may just let James handle all the moving for once, Ha!
I hope you have some awesome things in store for 2013. I hope you will pray for me and this journey as I will pray for you. I can't wait to keep you updated with the process.
I love you.
Audra
2012 was interesting to say the least. My best friend got married. I lost some weight. Discovered some infertility issues. Some friendships grew, some have started to wither. No drama or hard feelings, and there is still fondness and love, just different interests and lifestyles. It is a fact of life I guess, a little sad. I've learned about myself in this process. Some of myself I like, and some of myself could use some more work.
I feel incredibly blessed in my marriage. James is my absolute favorite person on planet Earth.
I have a lot of plans for 2013. Due to infertility I have decided to take a little side-step in our path to starting a family. (I say "I" instead of "we" because though James supports my decisions, he understands that it is still mine to make. I don't take that lightly. We have respect for each other and if he was ever against anything I would reconsider.) I will be joining the Navy! I went and talked to the recruiter before we went home. We were able to tell both sets of parents our plans. I'm excited and scared to start this journey.
I realize some of you won't agree with my decision and I'm sorry if you feel that way. Life doesn't always work out how we plan and sometimes that can end up being the best part. This may not be for me, however 4 years isn't forever.
There is still a lot to be done. I still have a lot of questions myself. I have 11 pounds to lose to meet military requirements for my height. I am currently studying to take the ASVAB at the end of the month. I am calling the recruiter tomorrow to get the date for that. Once that is done I plan to swear in! AHHHHH! so exciting and nerve wracking! I have to be on the Delayed Entry Program for 6 months before they ship me off for boot camp. In that program they will teach me the sailors creed and other military things. That should put me right into the month of August. We are due to move that month with James' orders so I'm not sure how that will work. I hope to be able to move us and then go to boot camp, but we will see. I may just let James handle all the moving for once, Ha!
I hope you have some awesome things in store for 2013. I hope you will pray for me and this journey as I will pray for you. I can't wait to keep you updated with the process.
I love you.
Audra
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